My Wife Is Pregnant, Even Though I Secretly Had a Vasectomy

I’m Richard, 30, married to Melissa for three years. We agreed to be childfree before marriage, but a year in, she changed her mind and wanted a baby. I didn’t. Secretly, I got a vasectomy, thinking it was self-protection. Recently, Melissa announced she’s pregnant. Shocked, I

suspected infidelity and demanded a DNA test, not revealing my vasectomy. The test confirmed the baby is mine—my vasectomy failed. I apologized for accusing her but haven’t told her about the procedure. Now, she’s hurt, barely speaks to me, and mentions divorce. Do I confess about the vasectomy, risking more betrayal, or stay silent? I fear I’ve lost her, and with a baby coming, I’m lost. Is honesty too late, or my only hope?