My In-Laws Want My
Husband’s Money—Now
After my husband’s death, I used his life insurance to secure our two children’s future. Though no amount could replace him, it met our needs. My in-laws, despite little involvement, demanded money for my husband’s grandparents, claiming it’s what he would’ve wanted. I refused, prioritizing our kids, and faced guilt-tripping. My mother-in-law called me selfish, accusing me of
dishonoring my husband. Constant calls, texts, and surprise visits escalated, even pulling my daughter into their manipulation by questioning why we weren’t helping her great-grandparents. I stood firm but became the family scapegoat. My mother-in-law spread rumors I’m hoarding
money, and some relatives cut contact. I fear legal action or further manipulation through my kids. I just want to protect my husband’s legacy for our children—am I wrong?