I Found A Grocery List In My Son’s Bag—Then A Toddler Called Him “Daddy”
I found a grocery list in my 17-year-old son Nasir’s backpack—milk, cereal, diapers, wipes. When questioned, he paled, mumbling about a friend. That night, I followed him and saw a toddler call him “Daddy” at a stranger’s door. Stunned, I watched him embrace the child, Amina, with a weary young woman, Yessenia. Confronted, Nasir admitted he thought Amina was his from a past fling, only learning recently. He’d been helping, buying groceries, reading stories, despite struggling with school. Yessenia, a teen mom, was alone after being disowned. I met
them, brought meals, and helped enroll them in a parenting program. Months later, Yessenia revealed a paternity test showed Nasir wasn’t Amina’s father. Devastated but resolute, he chose to stay in her life. Nasir graduated, pursued early childhood education, and with Yessenia, formed a chosen family. Love, not biology, builds true parenthood—showing up matters most.