My SIL and Brother Demanded to Use My Credit Card When I Said No, They Took It and Got What They Deserved
At 22, my first credit card symbolized independence, used responsibly for textbooks and groceries. I kept it quiet, but my brother Mark demanded to use it, calling it “free money” and guilting me with past favors. His wife Kendra and my mom backed him, showing up uninvited, calling me selfish when I refused. My dad intervened, sending them away. Days later, my card vanished—stolen during their next visit. Charges piled up: electronics,
gas, food. I reported it stolen, stunned by broken trust. Kendra, at the police station, begged me to lie and say they had permission. I told the officer the truth: it was stolen. Their shouts didn’t sway me. I didn’t press charges, but their detention and humiliation lingered. Mom returned silently, cooking dinner like nothing happened. Mark and Kendra never asked again. That card, still paid in full, represents boundaries, responsibility, and self-respect.