My Wife Just Announced She’s Pregnant- Story Of The Day

My wife and I, married for 5 years, agreed before marriage to not have kids. She later changed her mind, but I remained firm. To avoid conflict, I secretly had a vasectomy last year, believing she broke our agreement. Three months later, she joyfully announced her pregnancy. Shocked, I accused her of cheating without revealing my vasectomy. She denied it, hurt by my accusations.

I demanded a paternity test, which confirmed the baby is mine, suggesting my vasectomy failed. I’ve apologized for my accusations but haven’t confessed the vasectomy. Now, she’s withdrawn and considering divorce, feeling I prioritized blame over support. I’m torn about revealing the vasectomy to explain my doubts, fearing it could worsen things. With a baby coming, how do we rebuild our relationship? I’m overwhelmed and need advice.